There has been a downward spiral trend of shortening words over text messages, and it’s making our ancestors roll over in their graves.
Honestly, I do not consider myself a marvelous writer, but when it comes to sentence construction, I tend to go full throttle.
As a person who is trying to put more effort in expressing herself verbally, the tendency that people have to shorten their words via text is pure anguish. I take pride in writing very good and long sentences to articulate what I want to say, because I do not fancy misconceptions. (Yes, I come from the lineage of long text writers) and consequently, it irks me when I do not get the same service in return.
People are now substituting ‘you’ for ‘u’, ‘see’ for ‘c’ and the loathsome list continues. I can’t stomach it.
Girls, you deserve full sentences!
It shows that someone is putting in the effort to communicate with you, as a rational adult, with comprehensive skills, and brilliant cognitive abilities.
It shows that the person is taking their time to appreciate your words, digest them, and come up with a thoughtful response.
Moreover, it delves into the character of the person, as someone who values your time, and who would like you to value theirs too.
Most of the time, I go mum when someone shortens their words in this infuriating manner. It’s exasperating, and hair splitting to say the least, as I first try to decipher what the person is saying in the first place.
I once spent almost half an hour trying to figure out the rationale of someone’s message; and the next hour haranguing myself for wasting my time trying to unravel their phrases; and an insurmountable time chastising them in my head for taking the cheap easy route of communication.
I’ve let so many people get away with shortening their words to the point where I am at my wits end.
“Use your words, child!” Is a phrase I have cultivated in my mind, as I know full well how insufferable it can be when people misconstrue your words.
We seem to have forfeited the ecstasy of creative writing and the interplay of words, and substituted it for whimsical writing. The sense of urgency in the world has made some people lose the art of putting their heart into their words.
Incidentally, good writing makes you a good speaker too.